LIFE IS RIGHT OR WRONG, RICH OR POOR, SUCCESS OR FAILURE. ONLY we CHOOSE the way with POSITIVE or NEGATIVE follow…
Here’s the real story to refer,
My mom had only one eye. l hated her…she was such an embarrassment.She worked at the same school where l was studying; She cooked for students & teachers. My father was dead so she was working to support the family.
One day during elementary school, my mom came to say hello to me in front of my classroom. l was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me?!!!
l ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school one of my classmates laughed at me and said “EEEE, your mom only has one eye! “I wanted to bury myself. l also wanted my mom to disappear from the world at that very moment.
So, l confronted her that day and said, ” if your are only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don’t you just die?!!!!” My mom did not respond!!!
l didn’t even stop to think for a second about what l had said because l was full of anger.l didn’t care for a moment about her feelings…All l wanted is to go out of that house…So, l studied really hard, got a chance to go to Singapore to study. Then l got married. l bought a house of my own. l had kids of my own. l was happy with my life.
Then one day, my mother came to visit me, she hadn’t seen me for years and she didn’t even meet her grandchildren! When she stood by the door, my children saw her and laughed at her.When l saw her l immediately screamed at her, ” How dare you come to my house and scare my children!” GET OUT OF HERE NOW!!!”
And to this, my mother quietly answered, “Oh, I’m so sorry. l may have gotten the wrong address,” and she disappeared out of sight. One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So, l lied to my wife that l was going on a business trip….After the meeting, l went to see that old shack where l had lived just out of curiosity!!!!.My neighbors told me that my mother died….l did not shed a single tear!!!.
They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have…” My dearest son, l think of you all the time…l am so sorry that l came to Singapore and scared your children. l was so glad when l heard you were coming for the reunion. But l may not be able even to get out of bed to see you when you’ll come….l am sorry that l was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up.
You know…when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mother, l couldn’t stand watching you growing up with one eye. So….l gave you mine….l was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye, my eye….With all my love to you…
A great mom anything can give and gift to our children, carry hand held hand and closed w heart to heart with our children, our parents always did with Never Stop of Giving Love, Never Free of Contributing, Never Tired of Helping and Never Abandon to our children with THE POWER OF POSITIVE with RESPECT, TAKE CARE and HELP in our family in every day, every moment.The situation totally making differences.
ln this real story, if really lead into THE POSITIVE life, with RESPECT, TAKE CARE, AND HELP, l would let my son knows and tell the truth, let him aware and bear early, what he had suffered when he was a little into that accident. Anything would make differencing in their whole life if they following with Positive as a title of a subject in their family, they were staying in peace and happiness in a family every day. Don’t let your son regretted deep sorrow with sad in his whole life.
ELIZA-everyday live in zone active with POSITIVE.